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Are you scared and
looking for
solid information regarding your rights as a grandparent
because
your relationship and contact with your grandchildren are under
threat?
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and fall foul of information that does not relate to the
particular State that you live in!
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From:
Lynda Carter
Late last year I
watched, listened, sympathised and felt really sick at heart for a
friend of mine who's young daughter Faith had been tragically
killed in a road traffic accident two years previously.
Her daughter and her grandchild, Lauren aged 4 were at the
time living with them and had been since Lauren was born.
My friend and
her husband were granted legal custody of Lauren on a temporary basis
and thinking nothing more of it tried to continue life and assist their
grandchild to come to terms with the loss of her mother.
What happened
last year, two years on from this tragedy, was then to turn everyones
life upside down again! Lauren's father was awarded custody and Lauren
was removed from her grandparents home to live with her father. This
situation caused untold pain and distress to both my friends, the
grandparents and Lauren, the grandchild and throughout this despair my
friend promised Lauren that they would stay in touch and would have
regular visits.
Naive on my
friend's part you
might say. But, you see, she had never been
in this
situation before and had no idea of the law. She was looking at it from
a maternal point of view and trying to ease the distress of her
grandchild, not for one minute thinking that the courts would
see it any other way.
What
it comes down to is:
My
friend had no idea of her rights as a
Grandparent.
Visitation
Rights were petitioned for and what ensued was a prolonged legal
struggle. A difficult decision by a court in any state but you would
always hope that in the end, the child's best interest was taken into
account.
Now, my friends
had a satisfactory outcome and were permitted visitation rights and are
therefore able to continue a relationship with the child who had in fact
lived in their home since birth. It was hard on everyone and barriers
had to be overcome in the first instance with the child's father to
ensure this relationship continued .
It got me to
thinking how dreadful a family situation can turn out to be with a
change of circumstance like this and I decided to see what help was
available online.
It is a
fact
that:
- Every
state's
laws are different with regard to defining Grandparents' legal rights.
- The parents
wishes will only be overruled in extreme circumstances.
- It is imperative
to enroll the help of an experienced legal specialist dealing with child
custody within the child's home city.
- A Grandparents
visitation rights are deemed to fall within their own child's visitation
rights.
Supreme Court
July 2000 decision of Troxel v. Granville set a precedent and in
summary the ruling was that if a parent decides to allow grandparents
visitations rights, the parents decide the terms of those visits and if
they decide to say 'no', that decision will stand unless proof can be
shown that harm will come if such visits are not permitted.
It became a minefield to ascertain these few facts because of the different state
rulings. However, I seriously thought about the information and answers
my friend had needed to know, made a list and concentrated on finding
the answers to the following information she was looking for:
- Straightforward
information presented in a language not only the lawyers can understand.
- Examples
of court cases that other grandparents have filed.
- What
options are open to Grandparents and what are their rights?
- Who
should I ask for advice and what forms should be completed?
- What
are the rules governing the state where my grandchild resides?
Eventually I found it all in
one place:
An E-book that
provides exactly
what is required with specific details for
all 50 states.
I have to admit
that at first glance the authors are not the best at building websites,
however the information contained in this E-book more than makes up for
that and delivers exactly what I was looking for:
- Clear
and
concise, non-jargon, instant information.
- Information on a
National and State basis
- What Your
Options As a Grandparent Are
- 'Precedent
Setting' legal cases
- Legal
Opinions
on how to present your case
- Specific
Grandparent information for all 50 states in the U.S.
- Legal Forms Kit
I highly
recommend that you take a look at this E-book.
It certainly answered the
questions that my friend had needed answering and I really
wish I had found it when she needed it. It is a really sensible price
and I hope it helps you
at this time of desperation and pain to set you on the correct path to a fair
solution for all, especially the children concerned.
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